I just celebrated my 40th birthday.  No remorse here. If anything, I feel like my age is getting closer to how old I feel. Not because of aches and pains or because I want to tell people to "Get off my lawn!" I appreciate the slower, quieter things in life: gardening, a slowly steeping cup of tea, a thick book, and a thick blanket.

My coworkers tease me because I don't fit the DJ stereotypes (loud music, little sleep, repeat).

With Missoula being a college town, the activities for an older crowd might not be immediately obvious, but age is just a number. You'll see 80-year-olds at the metal concerts and 12-year-olds playing bridge in Missoula.

So here are some places and activities that might appeal to someone looking for activities that might be quieter, or happen earlier in the day in general.

Missoula Symphony 

Even Jamie Lee Curtis wants matinee concerts. While Vampire Weekend did play on a Sunday afternoon this summer in Bonner, if you want matinees consider attending the Missoula Symphony.

Mahjong/Bridge/Cribbage Groups 

While you might see older groups playing these games, it's not always the case. I've written about Cribbage before and this activity, especially in Missoula, is an all-ages activity. You can read more about Missoula's cribbage community below.

READ MORE: Forget Pickleball, Missoula Is Playing Cribbage 

MissoulaMovers Coffee Walks

Missoula has great walking and biking groups. The MissoulaMovers Coffee Walks has a schedule of walks and hikes around Missoula this fall that vary in difficulty level.

Book Clubs/Silent Book Club

The OG quiet activity: reading. What's brilliant about the growing popularity of silent book clubs is that they combine a social activity with a quiet one.

Hangout: Any restaurant open before 8 am on a weekday. 

Ruby's Cafe. The Break. Paul's Pancake Parlor. Bernice's Bakery. You get the idea.

The Most Popular Pie in Montana and States Nearby

Wisevoter.com looked at America's favorite fall desserts and pie was the winner. Here are the pies that are popular in Montana and the surrounding states.

Gallery Credit: Ashley